Conflict Owner's Manual
When you improve your conflict skills you improve your relationships. We're tech support for the conflict skills you already have, so you do conflict better.
Our logo is a dandelion because conflict is like a weed invading your garden. You want to know how to manage it, and keep it from spreading. In each episode, we give you one real life conflict competency you can use right away to improve your skills, which will also improve the quality of your relationships.
Dr. Deborah Sword is a specialist in conflict analysis and management. Tyson Bankert is a community facilitator and artist. We have decades of experience helping people improve their conflict competencies.
Conflict Owner's Manual
Latest Episodes
Two low risk ways to practice conflict skills in secret #160
Change is hard. Practice takes effort. It's easier to keep doing conflict the way you've always done conflict. This episode shows you two secret ways that you can practice your conflict competency. They're secret because no one will kn...
Why you should have the conversations you dread 159
The movie, A Nice Indian Boy (2024), shows two conflict competencies.1, what we fear from hard conversations often doesn’t happen. 2, the boundaries we erect may be barriers more than safeguards. Just as conflicts arise fr...
Are you defusing the conflict or adding fuel to it? #158
Which would you rather practice, how to turn a disagreement into a dispute, or how to turn a conflict into a conversation? I show you how you can do either with the ordinary words you use. But, to be conflict competent, you will want these thre...
How many people are in your 2-person conflict? #157
That conflict you have with one person doesn't stop with the two of you. Maybe you vent to a friend, or process your dilemma with a colleague, or withdraw while you worry about what to do. Even a one-person conflict you're having within yoursel...
The steps to prevent a conflict before it starts #156
Preventing a conflict from happening feels as good as resolving one after it happens. Conflict prevention is my favourite conflict competency. Maybe you're wondering why you'd want to prevent a conflict. Maybe you think you're compromising a pr...
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